I haven’t written for a while. I haven’t written because this year has kicked my ass. There has been man stress, work stress, more man stress, and now more work stress. I haven’t had mental capacity for the blog and, for months now, I haven’t been “properly” dating either, albeit somehow there are still men in my life.
I never thought going back would be easy, but I could never have imagined how much it would tax me. To live everyday second guessing what your partner is telling you, trying to determine if they’re lying, looking for telltale signs of the behaviour repeating itself.
The breakdown of my marriage wasn’t the biggest surprise, the biggest surprise was the timescale in which it broke down. Both in its quickness and what, to some people, felt like it’s slow painful death.
Why am I writing a blog about dating if I’ve already found the love of my life? Don’t worry, this isn’t a spoiler that I’ve found my life partner - although if she were single and we both swung that way I wouldn’t say no.
Mar-2018 I try to look at every experience as a positive, in some way at least. Whether a dating experience ended horribly or it didn't meet my hopes/expectations, if I can learn something then it was a good thing for [...]
There are some really great D words - diversity, drinks, dogs, delightful - and then there are some not so great D words - death, diarrhea, disease, Donald Trump. Where does divorce fall?